My replacement Pulmonary Valve is one year old today!

One year ago on Friday 8th June 2012 I had my pulmonary valve replaced at the Royal Brompton Hospital in London.

Last year at this time I had been in surgery for about 2 hours, with another 2 and a half still to go, with about 90 minutes of that time being on heart bypass.

It has been a busy year since then -  mainly because my energy levels are so much higher now! And in addition, I want to be more active and to get out and about more often.

I am now spending less time in front of the laptop screen (hurray!) and more time seeing friends and enjoying life with my family. I have a new bike...actually, I have my first EVER bike - at least it is one that is neither borrowed temporarily from a friend nor a branded freebie (from the company that built our house) that never suited me in any case.

I have increased my working hours up to 25 hours per week since April and this is going very well, giving me more time to get things done at work, but without impacting much on life outside work - I certainly have time to run errands before the school run, or go for a walk if the weather is good, for example.

I had told my daughter that once she was six years old and once my heart surgery was over, and I was completely recovered, that she could have a pet. In February she reminded me of this promise and so we now have 2 cats, adopted from Cats Protection.

 

As a family, we finally have a holiday to look forward to - a sunny holiday involving a flight away from the UK for the first time in years. In 2011 heart surgery was likely, so we had a holiday in the UK. In 2012, the heart surgery was definite, so the summer holiday was taken up with my recuperation. In 2013 a holiday was one of the first items on my long "To Do" list.

 

We are off to the Mediterranean to the island of Majorca, which was my first "sunny" holiday as a child. I've also visited there on a cruise and had a city break to Palma with my girlfriends a few years back. So life is pretty good at the moment.

 

In fact this recent picture of me sums it up very well:

 

 

 

We will be celebrating today of course and raising a glass to the wonderful team at the Royal Brompton Hospital who looked after me so well last year, as well as to all my fabulous family, friends and colleagues who were so kind and supportive. My thanks to you all!

 



So what IS a CHD?

CHD stands for ‘Congenital Heart Defect’ and is an abnormality of the heart which occurs soon after conception and often before the mother is aware that she is pregnant. The defects can range in severity from simple problems, such as "holes" between chambers of the heart, to very severe malformations, such as complete absence of one or more chambers or valves.

What does Congenital mean?

Congenital means 'born with' and/or 'from birth'. Sometimes a CHD can go undetected until adulthood but nowadays the majority are detected at birth. With modern medicine these defects are usually corrected with surgery. Some babies receive their first open heart surgery at just a few hours or days old.

How common is it? 

Congenital Heart Defects are the Number One birth defect in the UK affecting 8 out of every 1,000 live births – that’s almost 1%. Unfortunately CHD is also the Number One cause of death from a birth defect, killing twice as many children as cancer every single year. 

Types of CHD

There are 35+ known types of CHD, which can be present in almost any combination, so that every person’s defect is very different.  CHD's can be fixed, often via multiple open heart surgeries, but cannot be totally cured. This means the heart must be monitored by cardiologists throughout life. 

How many people are affected? 

It has been estimated that there are currently 250,000 adults with CHD in the UK, approximately 1,000,000 in the US and similar numbers in proportional terms in Europe and the rest of the world.

Even so, you probably think that you don't know anyone with a CHD…

Wrong! 

You know me (or in any case are reading my blog!) and, unless you look very closely, you won't be able to see my scars - even my new ones from June 2012 are pretty faded now!

 

My CHD is called Tetralogy of Fallot (ToF) and it occurs in approximately 400 cases per one million live births. It consists of 4 defects, which are Pulmonary stenosis, VSD (ventricular septal defect), right ventricular hypertrophy & overriding aorta.

Picture from www.heartbirthdefect.com

Increasing Awareness

The first step to saving lives is to increase awareness of CHD. Following on from awareness will come funding and research, and this is the key for hope and survival for sufferers and their families.

Please help support awareness of Congenital Heart Defects (CHD) by sharing this blog with your friends - this information could save lives.

 

You can also find out more information on all types of CHDs, as well as symptoms, tests and types of surgery on http://www.chd-uk.co.uk/ 

 

CHD Awareness Week - Happy Heart Day to Me!

Thirty-eight years ago, on Friday 7th February 1975, I had the operation to repair my heart defect, Tetralogy of Fallot.

I was seven years old and I would celebrate my eighth birthday a few days after the operation.

Life had been difficult for a few years before this - I couldn't walk or run very far, got tired very easily and had to stay in at break times at school. Even apparently non-physical activities were prohibited - for example, in my primary school class, as we learned about recording measurements, I wasn't allowed to see how long I could hold my breath for. Which doesn't seem like much, but it was another instance of my exclusion from the "normal life" that my friends led.

I remember arriving at the hospital, Harefield Hospital in Middlesex, and being given a bed in the children's ward. Every time someone who looked like a doctor or nurse approached the bed, I started to cry and hugged my Mum, until it turned out that one of these people was there to find out what school work I was doing in my class and to provide me with exactly the same workbooks, so that I didn't fall too far behind with my education! It seemed so odd at the time to have those workbooks, so far away from home - yet it was strangely comforting.

The day before the operation I remember meeting the surgeon, Professor Sir Magdi Yacoub (although that wasn't his title at that time), and noticing how large his hands were, which seemed unusual for someone who was about to perform such intricate surgery.

On the day of the surgery, the preparation started early in the morning and I must have gone down to surgery soon after the breakfast that I wasn't allowed to have. I was asked to "talk into the Magic Telephone" and that was the last that I recall of that day.

My first impressions after waking up following surgery were firstly that I was incredibly thirsty, that my throat was sore and why was I in a plastic tent!? The plastic tent was an oxygen tent, which felt really sweaty and uncomfortable. I was cross that I couldn't have more than a sip of squash every half an hour (I don't recall the exact times, but whatever it was, it seemed incredibly unreasonable to me, when I really wanted a drink).

On the Monday morning, I woke up in a different room - probably in a High Dependency Unit (HDU), whereas the first time I woke it was in the Intensive Care Unit (ICU). I had breakfast and then I was given an injection in my leg. It was very unpleasant, but fortunately at that time I didn't realise that these injections would be a regular thing over the next few days. I know now that those injections were probably of Heparin (or similar) to prevent blood clots forming following my surgery.

My next memory of that day is of walking down the corridor to meet my Mum as she came to visit me, which must've been some sight for her, so soon after my surgery. We then returned to the main ward, where I remained for a further two and a half weeks. I have no recall of being in any pain at all - within a few days I could wander around the ward - and of course I had my school work to distract me.

The heparin injections continued twice a day - one day I was well enough to hide in the locked bathroom for a while, but the injection was unavoidable. On the Wednesday of that first week it was my eighth birthday and we had a party in the children's ward. I had a lot of presents, but one of the things I remember most of all was a Get Well Card signed by the whole of my class at school. I also remember that my cousins had sent an "Osmond's World" magazine for me to read, which was even better than the Barbie doll I got for my birthday!

As CHD Awareness Week starts today, I am happy to share my memories of such a very important day in my life.

In many ways, 7th February 1975 was when I began to live the life of a "normal" child.

It's my 5 month-iversary!

Yes, 5 months have already passed since my open heart surgery!

My "zipper" is healing nicely - strangely, the part that is most visible at the top of my chest still looks more red than the parts that are hidden by clothes. I feel healthy and, looking back on my blog, any little niggles that I had are long gone.

I am back at work, doing my normal hours, and it feels like I was never away for more than a long holiday. I love my job and now, as we start to get busier preparing for our Christmas events, I'm enjoying it even more.

Some things have changed - I'm still keeping my new shopping and washing/ironing routines, i.e. shopping more frequently for fewer items etc. and that is working well for me.

I've finally ditched my V-shaped support pillow, which I had been sleeping on since my surgery (although I do use it when I'm reading in bed - what a great invention!), and for the last month or so I have been sleeping either flat or on either side with no problem.

In addition I am spending significantly less time on-line, especially on social networks. I'm not sure why this is, although perhaps it is because I have more energy and more desire to be out and about with my family and friends and less desire to be a couch-potato....who knows?

It was half-term last week and we went away for a short break to Derbyshire. I went swimming for the first time since my surgery and even managed to do some lengths of the pool (which I haven't done for years)!

Whatever facilities we don't have in this area, one thing we do have is plenty of fitness facilities in the form of leisure centres and public swimming pools. So swimming may become part of my new fitness regime, when I get fed up of the cross-trainer and exercise bike...!

Thinking back to this time last year, it had just become obvious that I wouldn't be having my valve replacement any time soon, as other non-heart-related surgery was more urgent and would take place at the end of November 2011.

I was so relieved that I wasn't facing the heart surgery, but still so apprehensive about the other surgery, and the prospect of both surgeries created a cloud that didn't lift from above me until 8th June 2012.

This year I can look forward to Christmas and spending time with my family and friends...and that makes me really happy.

Getting Back to Normal?

Last week was my little test to see if I really am getting back to normal. I thought that getting into a routine would be a good idea to check that I am up to such a routine every single day. So, with my daughter in a childcare club every day, it was the ideal time to try it.

Getting up in the morning at a specific time was the first test - we had to be at the childcare club by 9am and it was no problem at all, especially as my daughter was so excited about going there, that we were awake hours before we needed to be!

Before we had our little holiday to the North West, I'd tried driving the car and it was fine, but pulling the seatbelt across me and turning the steering wheel were really quite hard to do.

Last Monday, the whole driving experience was much improved - no problems with the seatbelt or the steering wheel, and moving in my seat was also much easier. Every day I tried to do a few chores - shopping for groceries was the main one, as I don't really want to do One Big Shop a week, like I used to do, as I still can't carry any heavy bags.

I even made time for some exercise and did a long walk one day, as the weather was reasonable. I did washing and ironing, cooking and washing-up and generally all the household things that I wasn't doing when I had my parents and father-in-law looking after me, and it all went well.

On Friday I went into the office to see my boss. We had a great chat about everything that had happened in the department while I've been away and then we arranged that I will start back to work on Wednesday 5th September! At first I will do just a couple of hours and then increase it slowly over a few days, until I'm working my full hours. I'm very excited about going back to work - I realised just how much I've missed it.

So I'm feeling pretty much Back to Normal from the range of movement I have and also in how I feel physically. I mean, sometimes I do things without thinking, like pulling the bathsheet around me when I get out of the shower and then I get a tweek and quickly realise that I still can't do some things! Or at least that I have to make those movements carefully.

I have no problems walking on the flat and I've tried walking up flights of stairs instead of taking the lift (in the multi-storey car park, for example) and it doesn't cause me to get breathless any longer.

Yesterday we went swimming as a family. I mean I didn't really do any swimming - it was more for our daughter to show off her own swimming skills! But I did manage a few strokes, even though I wasn't keen to do breaststroke, as it didn't feel comfortable. It probably would have been fine, but I didn't want to risk it the first time.

By the end of this week it will be 12 weeks since my surgery. I had heard that it takes about 3 months to get over the surgery and, for me, that will be about right.

The waiting is almost over!

I'm all packed and ready to go!

In just under an hour I'll be setting off for London. I'm due to arrive at the hospital by 12 noon, for last minute checks and tests, ready for my surgery tomorrow, Friday 8th June.

I was so relieved when I called the ward yesterday and was told that yes, there is a bed for you! My thoughts are so different even to a year ago, when I would never have imagined preparing to go into hospital for such an operation with such calmness.

Everyone has been so supportive and helpful - even the girl who cut my hair yesterday suggested the salon brand of dry shampoo, which apparently her colleagues (who have hair extensions for example) use to avoid washing their hair for up to 2 weeks!

So here we go! I hope I'll be able to update on how things have gone before too long.

The Waiting Continues....

Today at this time I was supposed to be in the operating theatre having my pulmonary valve replaced, but unfortunately my wait goes on, as an emergency case had to take priority over my surgery.

So, I'm still at home...waiting.

I'd just left work on Monday for what I thought would be the last time for a long while, ready to go up to London the following day.  When I got out of the car outside my house, I realised I had a voicemail and there it was, the bed co-ordinator apologising profusely that my operation would be delayed.

I called the hospital immediately and took their alternative date for surgery (Friday 8th June) without hesitation.

I've decided to take some annual leave from work until then, as I'm just not in the right frame of mind to go back to work...unless the surgery gets postponed once again, and then there will be no choice.

I was very disappointed, as I felt I was as ready as I could be to face the surgery and yet, here we go, another 9 days to wait. It feels strangely like a reprieve, yet I know that, in a few days' time, I'll be as anxious as I was on Monday, before I got that voicemail at 12.20pm.

My parents are staying with us and so that is a distraction, as will be the Queen's Jubilee celebrations this weekend. We'll probably have a barbecue and enjoy what is left of the lovely weather, and try to avoid thinking about surgery until after the bank holidays!

Ten days to go!

With just ten days to go until my surgery, the practicalities are keeping me busy and taking my mind off the realities of the ordeal to come. I've made a long To-Do list and I'm working my way through it gradually.

I've sorted out accommodation at the hospital for my husband to stay the night before my surgery and made arrangements for my family to stay at our house to make sure my daughter gets to school every day and to ensure that her life stays as normal as possible.

At work, I've sorted out cover for my role and I'm preparing an extended hand-over to my deputy this week, which will be my last week at work for some time.

At home, I've sorted out paperwork like never before. I've also found many items, especially old clothes and baby stuff that my daughter has grown out of, to donate to Isabel Hospice this week.

It's a bit like preparing for an extended holiday in a way, in that I've bought new clothes (front-fastening, including undies & nightwear), small sized toiletries for my toilet bag, and am making sure that all bills are paid and arrangements made for when I'm away.

I'm also adding audio-books and relaxation music to my iTouch ready for use at the hospital and afterwards, when I'm relaxing.

This week I'm catching up with our friends and then trying to relax and not over-do things.

With all the news about the arrival of the Olympic torch last week and the upcoming Jubilee celebrations I was a bit miffed that I'm going to miss out on all the partying and fun, but relieved to see that the Olympic torch won't be going through our town until early July, so with luck and a fair wind, I'll be able to see it!